
Thursday, December 15, 2011
Seeing Diversity...Creating Art

Friday, December 9, 2011
Start Seeing Diversity: "We Don't Say Those Words in Class!"
What messages might have been communicated to this child by the adult’s response
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
EDUC-6357-6 Diversity, Development, and Learning
This is our first blog for the new Walden Univ. masters ECE course. This course, EDUC-6357-6 Diversity, Development, and Learning has been a great eye opener for me thus far. Over the past few weeks I've really had to dig deep and learn to understand myself, who I am, how I feel and what I represent. This weeks assignment continues that pattern and ask some important questions in regards to gender, gender identity, and sexual orientation. We were asked the following questions.
• If you have ever used or heard homophobic terms such as "fag," “gay,” “homo,” "sissy," "tom boy," or “lesbo” as an insult by a child toward another child? Or, by an adult toward a child? Describe what occurred. How might these types of comments influence all children? (Note: if you have not had a personal experience ask a family member, friend, or colleague)
Unfortunately I have heard another child address another child as being a “fag”. I serve on the PTA board at my child’s elementary school and one day while walking the halls a young boy in 2nd grade told his peer he was a “fag” because he wouldn’t share his snack. The recipient of the word looked puzzled unsure of what had been said and what it meant. The name caller explained, “it means you like boys!” The recipient still looking a bit puzzled yelled, “no I don’t! You do! Get away from me.” When I reflect on this situation it makes me wonder how this word was introduced to the first child and how the recipient will be affected. The recipient of the word had never heard the word and now he has learned a new word with a bad experience to go along with it.
• Any other related situations, thoughts, concerns, questions, and/or areas of discomfort you would like to share related to children, gender, and sexual orientation
I have a sibling who is gay. Our family has not embraced him and unfortunately many of them will not talk to him. Last year at a family event one of our uncles yelled across the room to a younger cousin “stay away from him (my sibling), he’s a fag and I don’t want you to catch it! Ha ha.” I couldn’t believe what I had just heard, and from someone who was in my family nonetheless. I feel that its people like this who are uneducated about the topic or just mean are the ones we have to worry about. They are the ones we need to teach students to be careful around. My cousin who was standing next to my sibling stood still as she had no idea what the word meant. She later asked her mom if my sibling was sick because she didn’t want to catch what he had. It’s so hard to hear how children have to learn about these degrading words and in this case by someone you love.
Monday, October 24, 2011
The End...for now
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Team Building and Collaboration
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Nonviolent Communication
This week we needed to think about any disagreements, or conflicts, you have recently experienced or are currently experiencing at work with a supervisor or colleague, or someone in your personal life. Share at least two strategies you have learned about that might help you manage or resolve the conflict more productively, and why these strategies might be effective.
For example, could you suggest a compromise? Could you look for a broader range of solutions to your disagreement? Could you use some of the principles of nonviolent communication or the 3 R's to better help you resolve this conflict.
As a PTA board member for my daughters school I am always approached by teachers and parents who offer suggestions or their opinions. I was approached recently by a teacher who demanded that her class be in charge of the concession stand for the fall festival happening in the coming weeks. At the time of the disagreement I went back and forth with her on why it wouldn't be fair for her class to take the entire stand over and other issues which she was aware of. Thinking back on what happen and what we've been studying regarding non-violent communication I can think of many ways I could have resolved the issue before it began.
My Strategies
1. I could have listened more rather than trying to determine an immediate resolution and arguing back and forth about the problem. Perhaps if I would have actually stepped back and tried to internalize the problem and frustration the teacher was feeling I would have had a better end result.
2. I could have provided a compromise rather than just saying no. I could have asked the teacher to list out her plans and explain that I would meet with the board regarding the matter. I think pulling from the 3 r's of respect, reciprocate and resolve I could have done better at reciprocating the information the teacher was trying to give in addition to being better at resolving the issue.
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Who Am I As A Communicator?
For the blog this week, we were asked to think about the similarities and differences between how we evaluated ourselves as a communicator and how others evaluated us.
My evaluation of myself reflects exactly how I see myself. My listening style is reflective of being a people-oriented person who listens and cares. My verbal aggressiveness score reflected that of being a good balance between both viewpoints and my communication score was also listed in the moderate area. I see myself pretty neutral all the time. I am the one who stays in the midpoint during discussions and arguments. I have always thought of myself as more of a peacemaker. However, these quizzes show and reflect exactly who I am.
For this assignment, my husband and my assistant of 3 years evaluated me. Both my husband and assistant evaluated my listening style as people-oriented. They weren’t surprised from that score and neither was I. My assistant scored my communication anxiety also as moderate as I did myself, however I was surprised to see that my husbands answers placed me in the elevated area. I usually don’t find myself unsure in many communication situations so I’m unsure as to why this score was reflected. The verbal aggressiveness score was in the moderate box from all of us. I was happy to see that I am reflected as having a good balance between respect and consideration.
Through this weeks assignment I gained great insight and perception. I’ve learned a lot about how I perceive others and how my assumptions about others affect many of the relationships I have with others. I have realized that I do a lot of assuming prior to actually knowing a person – it may not be a stereotype but it is still an assumption, which isn’t something I should do. I’ve also learned how others reflect me. Although my husband and I live together his score of me didn’t reflect my exact score, however my assistant who has been working with me for 3 years could verbal give examples of each score and how it pertains to me.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Cultural Diversity and Communication
This week we have discussed communication and diversity. Included in this is how we as early childhood professionals communicate with others. This week we are to reflect on the ways we communicate with others.
As I reflected on my communication and reading of course materials I realized that I do communicate differently with people from different groups. I don't communicate with my mom the same way I do with my daughter. I also don't communicate with my preschool parents as I do my husband. With people who are closer to me such as my daughters and husband my communication is more relaxed whereas communication with my peers is more professional.
Three strategies that I believe I could use to help me communicate more effectively are:
1. I need to make sure I am more open-minded and open to others opinions
2. I need to make sure to treat others how I want to be treated. This includes when communicating think about how I am making others feel.
3. I need to work on not making assumptions or stereotypes
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Communication Skills: Language, Nonverbal, Listening
I chose the show Seinfeld. I've heard how funny it was and decided to watch an episode. I first watched with the sound off.
Based upon how the characters are communicating it seems they're gestures are portrayed it looks like they are all trying to get things out of each other. It seems they are trying to get each other to do things the other does not want to do. No one is laughing or smiling much so I'm not sure what type of comedy this is.
Friday, September 9, 2011
Communicating and Collaborating in the Early Childhood Field - Competent Communication
Monday, August 15, 2011
My Professional Hopes and Goals
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Welcoming Families From Around the World
If I were advised to assist a family from a country I knew nothing about I would be nervous but would definitely try to prepare myself.
The country I chose was Brazil. The five ways I would assist this family in transitioning to the U.S. includes:
1. I would do research on the country and the school system in Brazil and what their curriculum and schedule consists of.
2. I would try to be sure to have questions prepared to ask them about their child. I would have the questions prepared in their language (majority speak Portuguese) with a translator with me for reference.
3. I would incorporate their culture into our curriculum – highlighting holidays their country celebrates, music they listen to and books that are favorites of preschool children in Brazil.
4. I would look for toys to purchase online that are similar to those that are played with in a preschool class in Brazil.
5. I would request that the family get involved by perhaps volunteering time to get to know the staff and myself more.
I would really want the family and child to feel comfortable with me. I can only imagine how hard it would be to come to a new country and leave your child with someone who isn’t from your country and you aren’t very familiar with. I think it would be beneficial to all the students in the class and myself to learn about another country. An opportunity like this is rare. I think these preparations would benefit all of us.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
The Personal Side of Bias, Prejudice, and Oppression
As a junior in high school I spent a lot of time volunteering with children. I participated in Read for America and at my local Head Start program. I loved children so much it came as no surprise to my parents when I told them I wanted to be a teacher. My mom directed me to my school counselor to begin taking classes and participating in extra curricular activities which would provide a better experience for my new found passion. I remember my appointment with my school counselor like it was yesterday. I was really excited to go in and tell her the news. I told her I was interested in pursuing a career in education and in particular elementary education. My counselor began to explain to me and show me various charts highlighting salaries based upon majors in college. Of course education was pretty low on the list but not too bad. She then went on to ask my family history. We talked about how my mom and dad had not attended college but both earned a pretty good living in their own way. My counselor went on to tell me the likelihood of me making it to college was slim to none and if I made it in I wouldn’t graduate as no one in my family had ever done it so what made me so different. I felt horrible upon leaving my counselors office. Through our hour-long session she had pretty much killed my dreams of becoming a teacher and insisted I attend a local vocational school to become a nursing assistant…and that way I could still see children.
As a result, I began college as a pre-med psych major. Although I made it into college I did fail my first psych and pre-med science courses. I soon realized I needed to keep with the path I wanted and felt I was destined for. I went on to register as a Child Development major and graduated with a double degree in Child Development and Social Work with a minor in Pan African Studies.
When I think back on this incident it almost bring tears to my eyes as it really took something out of me. It made me look at education and college differently. I viewed college as such a hard task to accomplish and many times I wanted to give up. I felt so accomplished after completing school.
In order to change situations like this I believe it starts with the training of our school counselors and teachers. I’m not sure what was included with teacher in service days back in the 90’s while I was in school but I recall many similar situations of teachers making comments that were inappropriate or bias. I think if teachers and counselors were given proper training on how to answer these types of questions or concerns from students without showing a bias or insinuating certain things situations like this would not be as common.
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions
At the beginning of this week you were asked to observe your own and other people’s verbal interactions and detect examples of microaggression. In this Blog Assignment, you will share what you experienced and what you learned from your observations.
- Describe at least one example of a microaggression which you detected this week or remember from another time. In what context did the microaggression happen? What did you think and feel when you observed the microaggression or when you found yourself as the target of a microaggression?
- In what ways did your observation experiences this week affect your perception of the effects of discrimination, prejudice, and/or stereotypes on people
Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Perspectives on Diversity and Culture
This weeks assignment called for us to branch out and see what others think about culture and diversity. This assignment was particularly interesting as its always great to hear others perspective on things.
For this assignment:
• Call, write to, or talk to at least three friends, family members, acquaintances, and/or colleagues. Include at least one person who you believe is in some ways culturally different from you (a different gender, race, class, religion, abilities, age, etc.).
• Ask each person to share:
◦ Their definition of culture
Friend 1: I define culture as a person’s race and traditions they do with their family. Traditions that only they share and no one else from another race can really understand.
Friend 2: Culture is so many things. I think each person has his or her own culture. Culture is more than ethnicity to me. Culture embodies all the great things that make us individuals.
Family Member 1: Culture is a lot of things I share with my loved ones. My culture includes all the experiences I share with my children, our traditions, our heritage and our ethnicity. Culture is our family and all we represent summarized into one word.
◦ Their definition of diversity
Friend 1: Diversity is different cultures.
Friend 2: Diversity is very similar to culture…they go hand and hand. Diversity represents the various differences in each of us. The traits and characteristics that make us different.
Family Member 1: Diversity is various ethnicities and the differences that they have.
After reviewing the notes, I received some similar answers on this topic. Majority of which are quite relative to what I’ve been studying. I think everyone is on the right track but needs to elaborate a bit more. Based upon what we learned I think detailed characteristics of diversity and culture has been omitted from people’s definition of the words. I also think people are a bit afraid to elaborate on the subject for fear of hurting feelings or being viewed as insensitive. I think others need to think of culture and diversity in a less broad term.
Friday, July 8, 2011
My Family Culture
Imagine the following:
A major catastrophe has almost completely devastated the infrastructure of your country. The emergency government has decided that the surviving citizens will be best served if they are evacuated to other countries willing to take refugees. You and your immediate family are among the survivors of this catastrophic event. However, you have absolutely no input into the final destination or in any other evacuation details. You are told that your host country’s culture is completely different from your own, and that you might have to stay there permanently. You are further told that, in addition to one change of clothes, you can only take 3 small items with you. You decide to take three items that you hold dear and that represent your family culture.
• A description of the three items you would choose
The three items I would definitely chose are my grandmother’s bible which houses family history and information inserted in her handwriting throughout the bible. I would also chose the family photo album which has the most current pictures of our family dating back 4 generations. Last I would choose my grandmothers recipe book. This has all her recipes some in her handwriting, and others my cousin and I have typed out.
• How you would explain to others what each of these items means to you
I would explain the significance all these pieces play in not only my culture but my families history and traditions. The bible is something that is extremely sacred to my grandmother and something she shares with all her grandchildren. Its been in our family for many years. The photo album is also a very important part of our family as it has pictures of majority of the members of our families and some include a brief paragraph of their personal history. Last, the recipe book is also important as this will help past down traditions and valuable family history, which for us includes food.
• Your feelings if, upon arrival, you were told that you could only keep one personal item and have to give up the other two items you brought with you
I would be totally devastated to give up 2 of the important personal items but I would chose the bible. I definitely feel faith, and the word of God can get you through anything. My grandmother has taught me so much about my history I would just hope that I could serve as the vessel to pass the information on.
• Any insights you gained about yourself, your family culture, diversity, and/or cultural differences in general, as a result of this exercise
This exercise really made me stop and think about things that are important to me. I’ve always had faith in God but the thought of being faced with an adversity I thought of the first thing my grandmother and grandfather have always told me…turn to God when in need. This assignment has also made me realize how important it is to me to preserve my families history and overall culture. Its something I really want my children and generations to come to know and understand.
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Final Posting
- Post at least three consequences of learning about the international early childhood field for your professional and personal development (any format, any length)
- Post one goal for the field related to international awareness of issues and trends and the spirit of collegial relations
Saturday, April 16, 2011
Getting to Know Your International Contacts—Part 3
Friday, April 8, 2011
Sharing Web Resources
Friday, April 1, 2011
Getting to Know Your International Contacts—Part 2
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Continuing to Share Web Resource Information
I have been very impressed by the Zero to Three website. The deeper I get into the site, the more information that pertains to my daily functions as a preschool teacher pop out to me.
This week our assignment is to answer the questions below in relation to our resource site, in my case Zero to Three website.
What specific section(s) or information seemed particularly relevant to your current professional development?
On the Zero to Three site there is an interactive tool designed to help parents and caregiver’s support the growth of small children by illustrating four skill sets. The tool provides information on how children grow and develop in language, literacy, thinking and self-confidence. This has been beneficial to me as a provider and a great tool for parents to refer to also. I have listed it in our school's April newsletter for parents to access.
Which ideas/statements/resources, either on the website or in an e-newsletter, did you find controversial or made you think about an issue in new ways?
In an e-newsletter Zero to Three sent out a week back they listed an article about parents temperament in relation to how it makes our children react to different circumstances. This article really made me think! I have so many preschool parents who have a hard time with their 2 year old children going through developmental phases of temper tantrums, in some cases yelling etc. This article was a great piece written on how a parent can adjust their own temperament to aid in those situations.
What information does the website or the e-newsletter contain that adds to your understanding of how economists, neuroscientists, or politicians support the early childhood field?
The Zero to Three site has a whole section on policy and ECE. This section is devoted to various policy changes in the community, state, and federal brackets. This section speaks specifically to the changes that politicians are proposing that would assist or hurt our children. There are also policy guides here to help us better understand what proposals are being made. Zero to Three gave me a greater understanding of the important part a politician plays in ECE. As a student I don’t recall thinking much about how a politician could affect ECE. Now as an adult with children of my own and others that I care for, I think a great deal about the affect politicians have on me and my students – both direct and indirectly.
What other new insights about issues and trends in the early childhood field did you gain from exploring the website or e-newsletter?
Also through the Zero to Three site I have gained a greater understanding of maltreatment and abuse in children. From the information we studied last week on poverty, to the various articles about abuse and neglect, this portion of the site has definitely given me a different perspective on what some children go through. The saying is very true; we have to be a voice for those that can’t speak. In this case, those children who are mistreated and abused.