This week we have discussed communication and diversity. Included in this is how we as early childhood professionals communicate with others. This week we are to reflect on the ways we communicate with others.
As I reflected on my communication and reading of course materials I realized that I do communicate differently with people from different groups. I don't communicate with my mom the same way I do with my daughter. I also don't communicate with my preschool parents as I do my husband. With people who are closer to me such as my daughters and husband my communication is more relaxed whereas communication with my peers is more professional.
Three strategies that I believe I could use to help me communicate more effectively are:
1. I need to make sure I am more open-minded and open to others opinions
2. I need to make sure to treat others how I want to be treated. This includes when communicating think about how I am making others feel.
3. I need to work on not making assumptions or stereotypes
Shayla,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you that we do communicate differently with different groups. I like how you state that it is important to be open minded to other cultures. One of the biggest challenges that I have is to explain to others that it is important to treat parents and coworkers with respect and not get offended. It can be challenging because sometimes even though you may be a good communicator it is not easy to stay calm when you talk with someone who is offensive towards you and does not show you respect. Yet, I am a firm believer with "killing others with kindness."
Shayla,
ReplyDeleteI have also been reflecting on my communication skills and am finding the coursework very helpful. I think we all make assumptions and stereotype others. Just being aware we are doing that is showing how we are improving ourselves.
Shayla I like your # 2 & 3 of your strategies. I think it is important also how we treat the other person who we are communicating with. If we want them to listen to us then we have to listen to them. Respect deserves respect. Nothing irrates me more than to be speaking my heart out to someone and they are not paying attention fully. These lessons are really helping me in my communication skills both as a receiver and a giver.
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